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The idea of erusin as the minimum necessary condition to apply the [[death penalty]] for [[adultery]], but less than a complete marriage, appears in [[Deuteronomy]].
 
A non-traditional view is that the betrothal was effected simply by purchasing the girl from her father (or guardian). The price paid for her ([[bride price]]) is known by the Hebrew term ''mohar'' (מוהר&lrm;).<ref name="Genesis3412">{{bibleverse||Genesis|34:12|}}, {{bibleverse||Exodus|22:16-17|}}, {{bibleverse||Deuteronomy|20:7|}}, {{bibleverse||Deuteronomy|22:29|}}, {{bibleverse||Hosea|2:19-20|}}</ref> The girl's consent is not explicitly required by any statement in the Bible,<ref name="CheyneAndBlackMar">{{EncyclopaediaBiblica|article=MARRIAGE|section=Manius-Mash}}</ref> neither is there explicit permission to ignore it. Yet, as the servant of Abraham was seeking a Bride for Isaac, and discovered Rebekah living in Haran, it should be noted that her father Bethuel, and her brother Laban, said, "Let us call the young woman and ask her." And they called Rebekah and said to her, "Will you go with this man?" She said, "I will go."(Genesis 24:57, 58) It was customary in [[biblical times]] for the bride to be given part of the ''mohar''.<ref name="JewEncMar">{{Jewish Encyclopedia|article=marriage|url=http://jewishencyclopedia.com/view.jsp?letter=M&artid=213}}</ref> Gradually it lost its original meaning, and the custom arose of giving the ''mohar'' entirely to the bride, rather than to her father.
 
The traditional commentators do not necessarily explain ''mohar'' this way. Rashi understands ''mohar'' as a form of ''[[ketubah]]'', an agreement to pay a certain amount upon divorce,<ref>Rashi Genesis 34:12; Exodus 22:16, Mikraot Gedolot, six volume Shilo edition, 1969</ref> and [[Nachmanides]] understands it as ''sovlanut'', a sort of dowry or engagement present.<ref>Ramban, Exodus 22:16, Chavel edition, Mossad HaRav Kook, Jerusalem, 5732</ref> Rashi understands Rachel and Leah's complaint to Jacob ("we are considered strangers to him for he has sold us"<ref>''Halo nachriot nechshavnu lo ki m'charanu''</ref>) as saying that it was not normal for a father to sell his daughters, at least not without also giving them a [[dowry]].<ref>Genesis 314:15, Mikraot Gedolot, six volume Shilo edition, 1969</ref>